जन्मदिन मुबारक हो राहुल(( बाला मौसी के उदगार ही उपहार))

For all my children .. 

you must not be knowing how your parents felt when you were born .. but I have witnessed how it was when everyone of you were born starting from Hunny to paavni… 

We were eagerly waiting at home when Hunny was about to arrive … Nini was extremely happy when Hunny came in this world .. we all were blasted in happiness

Then came bunny … chhota sa low birth weight… for whom survival was the issue .. her mother worked really hard to get him in proper shape … 

Twinkle was born .. she came before time … me and anju were in Chandigarh with her .. and she had sudden leaking .. she came with us to rohtak and delivered a baby girl .. very pretty one ..  and neelam somehow managed her job and twinkle .. 

then it was our angel maagu… first from Babli bhabhi … she got all love from dada dadi buas chacha and parents … she was the sole contender for this love for 4 yrs .. 

Anna … oh my god .. Sneh had severe nausea vomiting throughout her pregnancy.. some days she was not able to swallow her saliva even … born in hissar … sneh had tough time in raising Anna … coz her own life was jerky … but she never compromised her love for Anna … Rahul … shuru se hi wajandaar.. 4.5 kg .. delivered normally in civil hospital .. what an incredible son and brother he is … I wonder how can he be so nice to everyone in every age group … so considerate but still so easy going .. 

Mili .. to mil hi gyi after so much difficulty… meenakshi bhabhi had to suffer a lot to get her .. she was on total bed rest .. as her medical condition was very bad… she had continuous back pain coz of slip disc .. but still after really hard pregnancy time .. she delivered this girl mili and naresh was all happy to get a doll … for him she was his pride .. he used to say to everyone .. क्या इससे सुंदर बच्चा देखा है कभी ??  और हम सोचते थे कि सबको अपना बच्चा प्यारा होता है … 

After coming back from his marketing tour he used to spend time carrying mili on his shoulders all the time .. her birthdays were always special and well celebrated .. she was vpampered like a princess by her father … 

Then pari aa gyi .. pyari si pari .. second female .. dadi ko setback lga initially but later on she was her laadli… and mine too … 

Phir saru aa gyi .. most wanted child on her father’s side .. or wo to har mahine birthday celebration hone lga till she was one .. 

then came our hero joshu … papa mummy or dadi ki aankh ka tara… 

Suhani… mera bachcha was born in Sonipat … and raised like a princess in true sense by her parents … 

Rhea again … born with hard pregnancy but comparatively less than mili … papa ki laddu… though she was second daughter but she was always welcomed .. and loved much by her parents … she is so lovable now … 

Sia … a fighter came with great difficulty… at 9 week gestation it was threatened and no chances of her survival.. took me to bed rest which I never had till then .. and somehow we were blessed to have her … she was mine totally and very close to my heart and I did my best as per I could to raise her … I took so many steps to get her best but I don’t know if they are right or not till now ..  

paavni to blessing hai bhagwan ki .. Bahut hi special boon hai .. sabse sunder sabse pyara .. she is meant for a higher cause … may be to spread love … 

Writing all this is to make all children aware of .. how they were born and what they mean to their parents .. and how difficult it is to raise a child … but it’s all worth anyway .. 

they need not acknowledge this but they should love and respect their parents .. as parents need little attention, care , love and concern from their children ..